Creating Magical Holiday Traditions


It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

Ahh, the holidays . . . undoubtedly my favorite time of the year. I love all things Thanksgiving and Christmas, from planning holiday meals to belting out Christmas tunes to trimming the Christmas tree. I am here for it all! And, having children makes the holiday season even more magical. What a gift it is for my husband and me to experience the splendor of Christmas through their eyes. 

The holiday season is a time to spend with family. Before children and prior to the never-ending list of personal and professional obligations, we would travel back home to visit our parents and siblings. We lived much closer back then, so travel was a whole lot easier. At my parents’ house, we baked cookies and cakes and helped make my mom’s storied Rocky Road candy while playing the best Christmas album of all time, The 12 Hits of Christmas. My favorite songs still are The Christmas Song by the incomparable Nat King Cole, Rocking Around the Christmas Tree by Brenda Lee, Santa Baby by Eartha Kitt, and Sleigh Ride by LeRoy Anderson.

Now, because of hectic work schedules with little time off and extended family who live almost 10 hours away, we rarely travel back to North Carolina during Thanksgiving or Christmas. Instead, we often spend the holidays alone or with close friends. Although it’s hard being so far away from family, the distance has forced us to create our own holiday traditions. This has become increasingly important as our three children have gotten older. The list of their wants grows as does the cost of those wants. However, we have decided to focus less on receiving gifts and more on creating magical memories together as the Cox family of five.

Timeless Holiday Traditions

Not sure where to begin? No worries, Momma. I have curated a fantastic list of new and old traditions to share with your family during the holiday season.

  • Go see a family movie on Thanksgiving.
  • Complete 30 days of gratitude during the month of November.
  • Volunteer as a family at a homeless shelter or soup kitchen or with the Salvation Army.
  • Visit a nursing home to spread holiday cheer.
  • Volunteer at the Jimmie Hale Mission or deliver meals.
  • Host a holiday dance-off.
  • Read stories to children at local day-cares and preschools.
  • Honor the memories of those who have died by cooking one of their favorite meals or doing an activity they loved.
  • Read the biblical account of Jesus’ birth together.
  • Throw Jesus a birthday party on Christmas Day.
  • Take a ride on the North Pole Express.
  • Wrap a book for each day in December from the 1st to the 25th, then have your children pick a book to unwrap and read every evening.
  • Use an advent calendar to count down the days to Thanksgiving and Christmas.
  • Bake and decorate sugar cookies for Santa on Christmas Eve.
  • Sing Christmas carols to your neighbors.
  • Plan annual Christmas photos dressed in matching holiday pajama sets.
  • Participate in the Toys for Tots holiday drive.
  • Devise a neighborhood-wide effort to sponsor a family in need.
  • Host a holiday game night for the family.
  • Make reindeer food to sprinkle on the lawn for Santa’s reindeer on Christmas Eve.
  • Prepare care packages for our service men and women.
  • Make homemade Christmas cards.
  • Bake and decorate a gingerbread house.
  • Start the Elf on the Shelf tradition.
  • Host a holiday movie night for the family—we love watching A Charlie Brown Christmas and Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer.
  • Drive through different neighborhoods to view Christmas lights around Birmingham.

This holiday season I am proposing a challenge of sorts.

See how many new traditions you can begin with your family this holiday season, ones that you will carry out for years to come. Gather your children for a family meeting and let them weigh in on the selections. Imagine their delight at what fun ensues as you let your imagination guide your steps. The options are many. Stay at home and create new experiences or go and explore all the happenings the Magic City has to offer. Take pictures, craft fresh memories, and weave new tales of holiday sparkle. 

The most treasured gifts are the wonderful moments we create with the people we love. They become priceless memories decorating our lives.”
This post was originally published on November 11, 2019.
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Leesha E
Originally from North Carolina, Dr. Leesha says that her husband, Kenneth, dragged her to Birmingham, kicking and screaming. Now, ten years later, she is proud to call this hidden gem her home. She and Kenneth have been married for almost 17 years and have 3 beautiful, energetic children that keep their lives busy and fulfilling. Dr. Leesha is a double board certified child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist. She spends her days treating kids and adults with mental illness while juggling marriage, motherhood, and her Dr. Leesha brand. She has a heart for moms, parenting, faith, and mental health and blogs regularly about these topics. Here's to happy, healthy moms raising happy, healthy children.