The Evolution of Motherhood :: Why I’m Choosing ‘Me’ Over ‘We’ on Mother’s Day

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Hey there, fellow moms! Can we just take a moment to appreciate the evolution of Mother’s Day celebrations? I mean, I’ve been in this mom game for a solid five years now, and let me tell you, my perspective has done a complete 180.

Don’t get me wrong, I still get a kick out of the adorable macaroni necklaces and the flood of social media posts showcasing those precious kiddos. But let’s talk about the real tea brewing in the mom community, shall we?

So, picture this: my very first Mother’s Day, I was a glowing mom-to-be, eagerly anticipating the impending arrival of my little bundle of joy. Fast forward to today, and my fifth Mother’s Day is on the horizon. And you know what’s on my mind? Not more macaroni art, but a day off. Yes, you heard that right.

I’m talking about a blissful escape from the chaos, a moment of zen amidst the daily hustle and bustle of motherhood. Let’s be honest, who dreams of managing a household, coordinating a day or working on their special day? Not this mama, that’s for sure.

Instead, I’m fantasizing about a solo spa day, complete with all the pampering my tired soul craves. Or maybe a little treat-yourself moment with some Uber Eats and a cozy Airbnb stay. Heck, I would even love to rally the troops and plan a getaway with my homegirls.

Because here’s the thing, while many of us need the break, we often feel shame or guilt when we verbalize it. Society has made it nearly impossible to be authentic about how tired and exhausting motherhood can really be. We’ve all heard the comments, “Well thats motherhood, it’ll get easier one day” and even felt the shame when we feel judged for being honest about how we feel. I am here to say it’s okay to admit that we need a break every now and then. It’s okay to prioritize our own well-being and indulge in a little self-care, especially on a day dedicated to celebrating us.

So, to all the moms out there who resonate with this sentiment, I’m here to say: you’re not alone. Let’s embrace our desire for some me-time and redefine what Mother’s Day means to us. And to those who may not understand, that’s okay too. Because at the end of the day, we’re all in this crazy, beautiful journey of motherhood together.

Here’s to macaroni necklaces and spa days alike. Happy Mother’s Day, you magnificent mamas! Consider making this Mother’s Day a true day for you. Let’s make it one to remember.