Being a leader sounds a bit intimidating, but the truth is, most of us are leaders in some capacity. As moms, we all lead our children. We nurture them, teach them about the world, and help guide them through big and small challenges. You may already serve in a leadership role at work, school, church, or in your community.
There are so many opportunities to serve the people around us and organizations that we love. All you need to do is believe in yourself, identify what you are passionate about and how you would like to help in that area, and take a leap of faith to try it out. There will be learning along the way, and you may fail, but you may succeed and love it!
What Is a Leader?
Dolly Parton said “If your actions create a legacy that inspires others to dream more, learn more, and become more, then you are an excellent leader.” I would also say that the heart of a leader is the same as the heart of a mom- they want to empower others to improve themselves and make a difference in the world.
Where Do I Begin?
What are you passionate about? Where do you and your family already spend your time, invest your resources, or feel a calling to help?
Over the years, I have enjoyed serving in leadership roles at work, church, my school’s PTO, nonprofit organizations, and community organizations. I have found that the best place to start is by volunteering or taking on a small role that I find interesting within a group whose mission I believe in. Over time, I can dedicate more time or gain more experience in different roles, which allows me to then serve as a good leader in these organizations that I care about.
1. Work
If you are employed outside the home, work is a good place to start. Are there leadership roles within your business or team that you could see yourself in?
2. School
If you care deeply about education or just want to get to know the parents and teachers at your child’s school, your school’s PTO or PTA is a fun place to lead. Start as a volunteer to see what fulfills you, and then consider becoming a committee chair or holding a board position.
3. Church
Do you have a heart for children’s ministry? Teach a Sunday school class or lead a group in Vacation Bible School. Do you feel called to serve the homeless or widowed? Talk to your pastor about outreach programs and see where you can become involved in an established ministry, or you can establish a new outreach ministry that you see a need for.
4. Nonprofit Organizations
Birmingham is home to many nonprofit organizations. Think about what concerns you in your community and research which organizations are helping people with that particular problem. Start as a donor or volunteer to learn more about the nonprofit’s mission and how they operate, and see what other opportunities are available.
I began volunteering for a nonprofit organization 8 years ago. As I learned more about their mission, I realized that I really believed in what they stood for. I loved how they were making a difference in my community. Now I have been on the Board of Directors for the past 5 years and even served as Chair of the Board. What once seemed a huge, intimidating role became a natural next step.
5. City
Local community leadership positions need to be filled by people who care about their city and want to serve it well. Some positions may be more competitive than others. Some require a campaign, while you may apply for and be appointed to others. Check your community’s website to see what is available and how you can become more involved. Examples include: City Council, Board of Education, Parks and Recreation Board, Library Board, Planning and Zoning Board, Architectural or Landscape Design Review Board, Arts Council Board, and Beautification Board.
How Do I Learn to Be a Good Leader?
There are several local leadership programs in the Birmingham area. You must apply or be nominated for these leadership programs, and many people are accepted in their second or third year of applying. If you aren’t accepted the first time, don’t give up!
- Leadership Hoover, Leadership Vestavia, and Leadership Birmingham are local programs for men and women who live or work in those cities. These programs are usually looking for a diverse group that includes people of all ages, backgrounds, and professions. They typically teach about general leadership and also educate class members on all the city has to offer, including ways to become more involved.
- Leadership Hoover Application period: Spring 2026
- Leadership Vestavia Hills Application period: January 1, 2026- February 18, 2026
- Leadership Birmingham Application period: February 1, 2026 deadline
- Leadership Alabama and Alabama Leadership Initiative are state leadership programs that educate leaders throughout the state on Alabama’s problems and priorities. They seek to empower participants to make a difference in our state.
- Leadership Alabama Nominations open Tuesday January 20, 2026
- Alabama Leadership Initiative Nominations open in May
- Momentum is a leadership program specifically for women in the Birmingham and Huntsville areas.
- Momentum Application period: March 5- April 30, 2026
Local universities often have leadership degrees or classes that may pertain to your field or interests, too!
A resident of Vestavia Hills, I had the privilege of completing Leadership Vestavia Hills (LVH) a few years ago. As a stay at home mom and community volunteer, I was relieved that my experiences were considered as valuable as the working professionals in my class. LVH opened my eyes to how much thought and detail is required to run our city well. It also helped me discover new opportunities to lead within my community.
Every leader has a unique journey. I challenge you to use your talents, passions, and experiences to lead others and make your community a better place!
Where do you see yourself empowering others and making a difference? What next step will you take towards being a leader in your community?
